"Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you're right." ~ Henry Ford
Do you have expectations for yourself, your future? What is an expectation? An expectation is a logical, or not so logical, way in which we want the events of our lives to unfold, how we think things should be, mostly because of the experiences we've had in the past. Here is the concept of the power of beliefs and expectations... people tend to behave as you expect they will. What happens is you act in accordance with your expectations, which in turn, enables your expectations to become true.
Now, having expectations automatically makes something in your mind a destination. That's one reason to not sit on an antique-mindset or be narrow thinking. If you do, your mind becomes closed and functions on conclusions, then, you cease to really learn about anything at all. However, studies have shown that the greater the expectation placed upon people, the better they perform and opposite of that... where as low expectations lead to a decrease in performance. Any way you look at it, they are forms of a self-fulfilling prophecy. So as you can see, due to the feedback between belief and behavior, your expectation, either directly or indirectly, becomes true. And, when you have no expectations things just happen in your life... you really don’t “do” anything. Well, maybe you make a strong determined resolution to do something, then soon become inattentive, and things just happen, then you rationalize why things did not work out the way you expected them to, umm!
Well understand this, we
all live with a little censor that resides inside us, our inside voice,
that is constantly comparing every little thing, and this comparing
inevitably leads us to have many expectations. However, your goal is to get positive results from your expectations, so when they do come true, they'll be what you expect and here's how you can do that.
